How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 05:43

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why is Trump so disliked worldwide?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Why is Donald Trump criticized by so many people?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How was your JEE Mains 2024 April attempt?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
President Trump kicked Zelensky out of the White House. Is it over for a deal?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
That's it for today.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Does not procrastinate.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How do I get my body in shape?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What I need from you?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.